Relationship and commitment.. two things that cannot be separated. You cannot have a relationship without making commitment, and you cannot make a commitment without being in a relationship. No, I´m not talking about love relationship only, it is applicable in all relationship… between parents and children, colleagues, friends and of course lovers.
When you decided to enter a relationship with a certain person, you have to realise the commitment that you´re going to take. The responsibility that you will have and the sacrifice that you have to make… relationship is not about the good thing only.. its not just the fun time, the romance, the intimacy and all the beautiful things in it.. but it also means pain, betrayal, disappointment, hurt, unfairness and forgiveness.
No, I am not an expert in relationship.. hey, I don´t even have a boyfriend now (yes, I´m looking, by the way :D) but what I do know is that it took a lot of effort to maintain a relationship and certainly if you don´t have a strong commitment, it will not last..
But what if the problem is in your partner? what if he cannot give what you need? what if he doesn´t want to change? is it ok, just to end the relationship and go your own separate ways? then what is the meaning of commitment?
can you say: I Do… but only if…
*fill in the blank with all the terms and conditions you want*
No..commitment is a commitment.. no matter how bad the situation end up, you just have to deal with it..
I’m an old fashioned girl, I took commitment very seriously and I’ll try my best to keep it.. and I hope I can do it… 🙂
its my story.. 